Tuesday, May 22, 2012
 
 
  Home arrow Abstinence arrow What Is Abstinence? What is Chastity? arrow Testing A Sexual Relationship
Main Menu
Home
About Us
Current Headlines
Abortion
Abstinence
Birth Control
End of Life / Euthanasia
Medical Research
Medical Students
Population
Position Statements
Pregnancy/Development
STDs
Stem Cells & Cloning
Contact Us
Web Links
Site Index
Resources
Related Items
Translator
Quotes to Note

The National Black ProLife Union, a group of African-American leaders, held a press conference in Washington D.C. on 18 August 2009. Listen to 3 short video clips at http://www.criticalmention.com/vg/crc/WIN/  

The National Black ProLife Union
www.nationalblackprolifeunion.com

Also for the complete AAPLOG statement, go to http://www.aaplog.org/latebreakingnews.aspx

Note:  Black unborn babies are killed  at a rate THREE TIMES that of non-black unborn babies. 

The AAPLOG written statement for the press conference follows, in part:

    Caring for each patient, by first doing no harm, has been a core precept of the medical profession since the time of Hippocrates. The Hippocratic oath distinguishes doctors and other health care professionals from social engineers; those who want to use medical care as a kind of tool to manipulate society. Any health care reform bills must not force health care professionals to violate the trust at the core of the physician-patient relationship...

    We also call on the Administration to explicitly confirm and defend the health care professional's right to refuse to participate in procedures which violate that health care professional's conscience, including procedures explicitly forbidden under the Hippocratic Oath: abortion and euthanasia.

Donna J. Harrison, M.D. President. American Association of Pro-Life Obstetricians and Gynecologists, also made this oral statement on 18Aug09 at the National Black ProLife Union press conference:

    Abortion destroys life. Abortion not only kills the unborn child, but also increases the mother's risk of suicide, depression, substance abuse and other adverse mental health outcomes.

Abortion increases her risk of preterm birth and cerebral palsy in the next pregnancy.

RU-486 abortion increases her risk of death from infection and massive hemorrhage.

These and other health risks are well documented in the medical literature...

    Abortion destroys life. And abortion in this country is targeted at Black women.

One third of the abortions done in this country are done on black women, even though Black women make up about one sixth of the population.

Under the current bill, tax money is used to fund abortion providers, who already expand operations disproportionately to Black Americans. This means more black children aborted. We call on President Obama to explicitly exclude any tax funding of abortions from any proposed health care reform bills.

    And we call on the President to stop all current government subsidy to those organizations who in their roots and in their actions target the black community for genocide.

    Health care is about life. And health care reform must be about making life better, not destroying the lives of people who someone else doesn't want.


Confronting Abortion on Facebook

AAPLOG has a facebook page at    http://www.facebook.com/pages/American-Association-of-Pro-Life-OBGYNS/101069505589 .   AAPLOG presents abortion complication related information, and engages in dialogue.  On the "wall" is one set, on the "discussion" page is a more complete presentation. 

Blood Money http://www.bloodmoneyfilm.com/

Maafa 21  http://www.maafa21.com

 
Testing A Sexual Relationship PDF Print E-mail

What if an unmarried couple is sexually active and one of the partners (A) asks the other (B) to stop having sex?

How would being infatuated or being in love affect the other partner’s reaction?

If the other partner (B) insists on continuing to have sex, then this person is not really concerned about the partner’s (A) well-being.

Sex can be addictive. If you’re addicted to sex, you need to break this habit and learn a new one: this is sexual self-control. It’s definitely possible to do so, and there are great rewards.

~~ Love wants what is best for the other person.

~~ Love never puts anyone at unnecessary risk of pregnancy (outside marriage), disease, or heartache.

~~ Love is giving for the total good of another.

~~ Love – true love – always looks out for other people’s emotional, physical, intellectual, and moral well-being.

If you are involved in a sexual relationship and want to stop, you need to develop cessation skills.

Cessation skills set guidelines that help a person regain self-control by abstaining from a particular behavior, such as premarital sex, drug use, viewing pornography, or violence.

The following cessation skills can help you regain sexual self-control:

1. Give reasons for your decision. Examples:
• I want to feel more self-respect instead of feeling used.
• It’s straining my relationship with friends and family members.
• The health risks are too high.
• I never really know the sexual history of another person.

2. Reinforce the decision by your behavior.
• Avoid places and people that cause you to slip.
• Body language can give a strong NO message.
• Don’t flirt with the unhealthy behavior, thinking you’re strong enough to abstain from it.

3. Plan alternatives.
• Associate with friends who will support your healthy behaviors.
• Begin working out and exercising daily if possible.
• Discuss other ways of finding pleasure that area both healthy and positive.

4. Stick to your decision to change.
• Be assertive when you are pressured.
• Exercise self-control when you are pressured.
• Point out the problems of engaging in unhealthy behaviors.
• Keep in mind the responsibilities you have both as a student and as a son or daughter living at home.
• Respect yourself and demand respect from others.

By practicing these cessation skills and regaining sexual self-control, you put yourself back on the path to becoming a mature adult.

Mature adults respect themselves and others by exercising self-control and responsibility.

[excerpted from “Character and Dating”, Sex and Character, Cole and Duran, Pandas Publications, Haughton Publishing Company, Dallas, TX; ISBN 0-914513-50-8; Foundation for Thought and Ethics (Richardson, TX), 1998]

 
< Prev   Next >


Go to top of page  Home | About Us | Current Headlines | Abortion | Abstinence | Birth Control | End of Life / Euthanasia | Medical Research | Medical Students | Population | Position Statements | Pregnancy/Development | STDs | Stem Cells & Cloning | Contact Us | Web Links | Site Index | Resources |
 
PhysiciansForLife.org Copyright (C) 2004-2012 All Rights Reserved