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Sex therapists and pornographers have long prescribed pornography to correct male impotence and to "spice up" a couple's sex life.
However, the broader meaning of "potency" is "power, authority … a person or thing exerting power or influence."
The proper contextual definition of modern impotence, then, is not the narrow classification of "erectile dysfunction."
One is not “potent” if one requires little blue pills, sexy pictures, or immature victims for sexual satisfaction. It is more accurate then to define men as impotent when they are unable to be conjugally intimate with their chosen beloved.
Princeton University professor of psychiatry Jeffrey Satinover said, "The pornography addict soon forgets about everything and everyone else in favor of an ever more elusive sexual jolt. He … will place at risk his career, his friends, his family."
Satinover compared pornography to heroin, saying, "Only the delivery system … and the sequence of steps" differ. Moreover, the sequence from potent to impotent is swift.
Professor Mary Anne Layden of the University of Pennsylvania compared pornography's rapid effects to that of "crack cocaine."
The impotent man replaces his “partner” with a fantasy. For, says neurobiologist Peter Milner, "unfamiliar stimuli have a rewarding component. It is even possible to become addicted to novelty and uncertainty."
Indeed. French neuroscientist
Serge Stoleru found that overexposure to "erotic" stimuli exhausted the
sexual responses of normal, healthy young men.
Someone once dubbed pornography "the opiate of the masses," an
endogenous opiate high called "lust" that makes wholesome, loving
sensuality feel ho-hum. Pornography triggers high states of
fear-shame-lust arousal ("flight/fight/sex"), quite the opposite of a
faithful love. No wonder even devoted couples confess dismay at finding
pornography more arousing than their marital embrace.
Many wrongly assume their love is weak. Yet, the strength of love
requires an absence of the shame, fear, (and even hate) that commonly
defines lust. For a fuller discussion of the psychopharmacology of
pictorial pornography, visit my website.
Says Milner, “[m]ost stimuli become less attractive … as they become
familiar and predictable. … Thus, novelty has an effect similar to that
of reward." (Emphasis added.)
By definition, when the libido depends on
novel pictures, such men are dependent,they are “without power,”
emasculated,their libido, their masculine power and authority hijacked
by a steady stream of new paper dolls.
In December 1953, Hugh Hefner began marketing Playboy as "sexual
liberation." But, instead of emancipation, Hefner sold Joe College
Pornographically Induced Impotence.
Pornographically Induced Impotence is evident in an August 1974 Playboy
cartoon. A beautiful girl and a handsome lad are in bed. Across her
nude body the grinning boy has laid a naked "centerfold" image. The
girl under the paper doll asks, plaintively, "Are you sure you still
love me, Henry?"
This Playboy lad – symbolic of millions of currently addicted Internet
consumers – no longer commands his own natural-born masculine power to
physically love. "Henry" and his young vessel are robbed of a vitally
important human right; the right to fully experience love-based
intimacy.
Urged on by Kinseyan "sexperts" to bring "erotica" into their marriage
beds, millions of hoodwinked couples are now puppets, dangled by
pornographic strings.
Pornographically Induced Impotence is a national
pandemic, raking in untold billions for pornographers and their
satellite businesses as well as from marital discord and the despair it
produces.
From the Playboy mansion to Capitol Hill, from thousands of prostituted
Las Vegas girls and women to newlywed bedrooms, from Fortune 500
offices to Ivy League dorms, men and boys have habituated to the
rewards of their own hand from the hand of Hefner et al.
Public policy analyst Shaunti Feldhahn recently launced a series of
church lectures after counselors noted, "many families in our church
are struggling with pornography and with infidelity." Men are "visually
wired," Feldhahn explained. Their images of women stretch "back to his
teenage years and any one of the pictures is going to pop up at any
time in his brain without warning."
In 1981, Hefner biographer Gay Talese wrote that "Hef's" influence
reached out to "the central nervous system of Playboy readers
nationwide."
Men’s collective "central nervous system" includes
"images" popping up and stretching "back to teenage years." By 2005,
some experts estimated that situational or total impotence was
afflicting up to 50 percent of men.
Pornography (erototoxins) emasculate indiscriminately, castrating men
of every race, religion, and "orientation," atheist and orthodox, rich
and poor, conservative and radical, young and old, svelte and paunchy,
handsome and unappealing, scientist and sky-cap, the clever and the
obtuse, en masse.
Pornographically Induced Impotence once kept men and boys anxiously
awaiting each month's "new" fantasy images. The Internet means they
wait no more. Good news for The Sex Industrial Complex (Pornography,
Sexology and Big Pharma)! Men conditioned by erototoxins since boyhood
blame their wives and girlfriends for their vanishing libido.
Yet psychologist Bernie Zilbergeld long ago admitted that magazines
like Playboy were implanting impotence in their consumers: "Humor is
the basic source of education.…Cartoons that poke fun at impotence or
other male inadequacies…would outweigh any supportive things said in
the advice column. Cartoons are simply more compelling. Some things
are."
Thousands of Playboy cartoons "poke fun" at male impotence as well as
virginity, wives, marriage, religion, sexual harassment, incest,
“illegitimate” childbirth and child sexual abuse.
Feldhahan said the churched men she surveyed largely sought not
“unlimited sex," but "a feeling of wanting to be wanted." Men must
recoup their manhood to be wanted. Until "Henry" strides forth to purge
fantasy, he will remain a vassal, his manhood controlled by
pornographers, his Liege lords.
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Dr. Judith Reisman is president of the Institute for Media Education
and is the author of "Kinsey, Crimes & Consequences." More is
available at Reisman's website, www.drjudithreisman.org.
[Thursday, September 27, 2007, WorldNetDaily; Judith Reisman (revised)
October 03, 2007;
http://www.drjudithreisman.com/archives/2007/10/the_impotence_p_2.html]
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