Oral Sex and Teenagers
Due to understandable sensitivities, there are fewer data available about how common the practice is among teenagers than adults, though anecdotes from educators and counselors suggest that oral sex is becoming common in both middle school and high school, even among many who consider themselves virgins.
In one study of 12- to 15-year-olds, about one of every six students said they had tried oral sex (including many who had never had vaginal sex).1 In a study of senior high students, more than four out of five nonvirgins and one out of five virgins had tried oral sex.2 Teens exposed to drugs and alcohol are particularly likely to try oral sex.3 A dangerous misconception about oral sex is that its safe. Although pregnancy is not an issue with oral sex, a wide variety of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) can be spread through oral sex. Some of them are painful. Some of them are untreatable. And some of them can be deadly.
The Facts About Oral Sex & STDs
For much of our culture, oral sex is a taboo topicsomething too private and personal to discuss openlybut that silence has resulted in a dangerous lack of knowledge. When it comes to your health, ignorance isnt bliss. In fact, it can be costly and painful. For the sake of your health and safety, you need to know the risks of oral sex.
What Is It?
Oral sex is contact of one persons mouth or tongue with the genitals of another person.
Whos Doing It?
Oral sex is fairly common among American adults. In a national survey from the early 1990s, three out of four adults said that they had tried oral sex. One out of four said they practiced oral sex the last time they had sex. In this same survey, unmarried persons, college students, and Whites and Hispanics were more likely than others to say that they practiced oral sex.1
Due to understandable sensitivities, there are fewer data available about how common the practice is among teenagers. Anecdotes from educators and counselors suggest that oral sex is becoming common in both middle school and high school, even among many who consider themselves virgins. In one study of 12- to 15-year-olds, about one of every six students said they had tried oral sex (including many who had never had vaginal sex).2 In a study of senior high students, more than four out of five nonvirgins and one out of five virgins had tried oral sex.3 Teens exposed to drugs and alcohol are particularly likely to try oral sex.4
Is It Sex?
There is widespread confusion about whether oral sex is sex. In one study, one third of college students believed that oral sex was abstinent behavior.5 However, if sexual activity is defined as bodily contact meant to give or derive sexual gratification, then it is clear that oral sex is sex.
Is it Safe?
Another misconception about oral sex is that its safe. This is a dangerous myth. Although pregnancy is not an issue with oral sex, a wide variety of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) can be spread through oral sex. Some of them are painful. Some of them are untreatable. And some of them can be deadly.
Oral Sex and Syphilis
Syphilis is a highly contagious STD. Transmission usually occurs during vaginal, anal or oral sex when syphilitic sores or patches come into contact with slightly abraded skin or mucous membranes. Left untreated, syphilis can progress from painless ulcers to a rash, heart disease or memory loss, and death. While penicillin is a highly effective treatment, it cannot reverse damage already done by the disease. Oral sex is an efficient way to transmit syphilis, and has played an important role in a number of recent syphilis outbreaks.6,7,8
Oral Sex and Gonorrhea
Gonorrhea is a very common, highly contagious STD that is passed through contact with infectious fluids. Gonorrhea can cause pelvic inflammatory d
PID) in women, which can lead to abdominal pain and infertility. Infected pregnant women are at increased risk for miscarriage and premature births, and their infants can have serious eye infections. Gonorrhea survives well in the throat, and gonorrhea throat infections from oral sex are relatively common.9 Most people with throat infections have vaginal or penile infections as well. Although most throat infections from gonorrhea cause no symptoms, you can develop a sore throat, fever and swollen lymph nodes.
Oral Sex and Genital Herpes
Herpes simplex-1 (HSV-1) and herpes simplex-2 (HSV-2) are very similar viruses that are transmitted by direct contact. In the past, most cold sores were caused by HSV-1 and most genital herpes was caused by HSV-2. Genital infections cause painful blisters, ulcers and difficulty while urinating and can recur for a whole lifetime. Although ongoing therapy can reduce the number and severity of recurrent infections, there is no cure. Genital infections acquired during pregnancy can cause encephalitis (brain swelling), retardation and death in newborns. Both HSV-1 and HSV-2 can be spread from an infected person to an uninfected person even if the infected person has no visible sores. Both viruses are easy to spread through oral sex. Oral sex appears to be changing how many people get herpes and where they get it. In one study of STD clinic attendees, those who had oral sex during the preceding two months were three times more likely to have genital HSV-1 than HSV-2.10 This is the opposite of what used to be seen, when most genital infections were caused by HSV-2.
Oral Sex & Chlamydia
Chlamydia is the most common bacterial STD in the U.S. It is particularly common among sexually active youth. In addition to vaginal sex, chlamydia appears to be transmissible through oral sex. In one study of persons in an STD clinic, one of every 30 patients had a throat culture positive for chlamydia. Women who practiced oral sex were three times more likely to have chlamydia in their throats than other women.11
Oral Sex & HPV
Human papillomavirus (HPV) is the most common viral STD and is transmitted by skin-to-skin contact. Genital warts are caused by some types of HPV and cervical cancer is caused by other types. Cervical cancer kills more than 4,000 women each year in the U.S.12 HPV appears to be transmissible by oral sex. Adults with recurrent respiratory papillomatosis (a throat condition that causes hoarseness) were more likely than uninfected adults to have practiced oral sex.13
Oral Sex & HIV
HIV is transmitted through contact with infected blood or body fluid. Infected pregnant women can pass it to their babies. The virus invades the immune system and destroys it over time. The destruction of the immune system reduces a persons ability to fight off infections and cancer. People with HIV eventually develop AIDS, which is often fatal. When first infected, you may only have flu-like symptoms (feeling tired, feverish or achy) that last a little while. You may have no other symptoms for years. If you go on to get AIDS, you may get multiple infections that other people fight off easily, such as tuberculosis, pneumonia and yeast infections. Anal sex, multiple partners or shooting drugs are particularly high-risk activities. Transmission of the virus also occurs during vaginal and oral sex. Recent estimates of the proportion of new HIV cases attributable to oral sex range from less than 1 percent14 to 7 percent.15
Despite widespread misconceptions, oral sex is risky sexual activity that puts participants at risk for a number of STDs.
If youve already been sexually active outside a lifelong mutually faithful relationship (as in marriage), talk to your healthcare provider about getting you and your partner tested for STDs. Abstinence from sexual activityincluding oral sexor lifetime faithfulness to one uninfected partner is the only certain way to avoid being infected.
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