Secondary Virginity / Sexual Integrity

The dangerous effects of Sexually Transmitted Diseases easily outweigh the momentary benefits of premarital sexual intercourse/ sexual contact.    Think you can't get an STD / STI?   Think again…    ANYbody can get STDs ANY Day of the Year!     As physicians, we encourage you to pause and seriously consider all the alternatives & consequences of your sexual involvement:   STDs for the rest of your life… Out-of-wedlock pregnancy can lead to ruined college/career plans for your future, or a future of poverty… Abortion is forever… Emotional stress and strain… Massive Broken Heart when the relationship ends… Rage / Thoughts of suicide… Regrets for the rest of your life… Worry that people in your future will "find out" about your past… If you are sexually involved outside marriage at this time, we urge you to consider Secondary Virginity.   Secondary (or Renewed) Virginity allows you to return to the state of sexual abstinence in order to guard your health and put your mind at ease.      An INTEGRATED LIFE brings Peace, Security and Confidence…   SEXUAL INTEGRITY leads to WHOLENESS in your Life!   Avoid the anxieties and fears associated with sexual involvement.  Say "No" now for Your Future!!   What will your partner think? If your partner does not accept your new commitment to your future, and only wants to continue using your body for his/her own pleasure, you should be relieved to see this one leave!   But you may find that your partner didn't really want to have sex, & was doing it because he/she thought that was what YOU wanted!   That's another problem...